One thing i notice, is that wherever the Communities are located (forums, sites, blogs) if its a small one, people all get along and like each other, without arguing. Once its goes bigger and bigger, and one person leads to Aguing, all hell brokes loose and drastic measures happen. Why am i saying this? Because for example Battlefield 2142, i know its a FPS and all people are gaming and all. But if you think of it, they work like a bad community, not talking to each other and fighting. These are the bad servers. Now, there are those, where you can team up with any soldier and you can fight side by side with them relying on them as well. I know this is awkward, but its just the way things are. With a little calm and pacience, everything can work out. Like S.I. for example. Its a good large Community where everyone gets along. See you arround.